It’s beginning to feel like everything is getting all messed up again.
Another psych assessment today, culminating in a place on the waiting list for long-term – ‘I would say at least a year’ – psychotherapy.
A row with Ian. I wish he could see that it would be infinitely more helpful to be there for me, talk to me, support me, rather than lecture me. To get over this man flu and start engaging with our family again. To not make me feel guilty for taking one child out and leaving him with the other. Honestly – I feel guilty about leaving him to take care of his own daughter.
A day with my mother coming up; the first since she found this blog and found out what has been going on.
I log onto Facebook; my friends log off.
I desperately, desperately want some company. Empathy. Love.
But the world only wants me when I’m strong, normal. functioning.
I lay in bed last night and thought of suicide. When could I do it? Not this week – I want to at least see Katie’s first nativity. Not right before Christmas; I couldn’t ruin this supposedly happy time of year for my family for the rest of their lives.
Then I think, God knit me together in my mother’s womb. I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
Suicide is a sin. Can one commit suicide while still trusting in God? Is there a place in Heaven if I do?
I feel trapped.
I know this is God’s plan for me. I know this has drawn me nearer to him and made me cry out, cling to him in a way I never have before. Jesus suffered, and he was without sin. I am full of sin, so of course I should suffer. I am not angry at God. I am not asking him to take this away from me.
I will smile.
I will work.
I will take care of my children.
I will grit my teeth while my husband berates me.
I will do my best to serve God.
But it’s just hard.